It’s an obvious fact of life that we Christians live
in “the world”. That is, we live in the world as opposed to our true home,
eternity in Heaven with God. And so as we live in the world, there are a myriad
of different people, ideas and ideologies, cultures and moral codes. Or, as
modern secularists (or even some ill-educated Christians, unfortunately) might
put it, “there are many different ‘truths’ to be had.” We as Catholic
Christians know better than that, of course. We know that truth cannot be
subjective. By the very definition of the word “truth”, the act of calling any
one truth subjective is a contradiction of epic proportions. A truth,
especially THE Truth, is indeed objective. So if truth is objective, then the
number of years, centuries, millennia, etc. that go by should have no bearing whatsoever
on that truth. That makes sense right? So why is it that so often I constantly
have to hear friends, co-workers and others tell me that such-and-such person
is too “old school” in his thinking? That the bishops in the Catholic Church
are behind the times? As if simply the passage of time itself is what
determines if something is true or not? If I’m getting tired of it, then I know
many of you are too.
What Is Truth? Christ Before Pilate- Nikolai Ge |
Now of course, I’m not talking about every instance of
the phrase “old school”. My favorite baseball and basketball teams sometimes
wear old school, throwback jerseys. Or some video game or TV show I used to
enjoy that makes a comeback in our nostalgic culture can employ a positive
connotation for the old school saying.
What I object to, and find grating, is how ideas such as chastity, temperance, sacrifice, prudence and the like can be dismissed out of hand by so many by negatively referring to these things as “old school”. As if by speaking those two words, the definitions and meaning behind those ideas and virtues become null and void, are not open for discussion, and are to be looked upon as archaic; as things that modern men and women would never dream of doing.
What I object to, and find grating, is how ideas such as chastity, temperance, sacrifice, prudence and the like can be dismissed out of hand by so many by negatively referring to these things as “old school”. As if by speaking those two words, the definitions and meaning behind those ideas and virtues become null and void, are not open for discussion, and are to be looked upon as archaic; as things that modern men and women would never dream of doing.
This happens to me often at work, where for instance I
hear how a co-worker’s daughter is going out with a boy whose family is “old
school” in that they don’t want the two cohabitating before marriage. Or when I
was in high school, I had one of my good friends tell me that since I preferred
to wait until marriage to have sex, I shouldn’t get my hopes up for finding a
girl with similar values. They just don’t do that anymore, he said. “Anymore”
implying that, perhaps, at one time people found it moral to abstain from sex
before marriage, but such a thing just doesn’t happen anymore… that truth has
changed!